Friday, April 30, 2010
I don’t always
agree with the general public. In fact, most of the time, we like different things. For example, I don’t understand what people like about reality TV. Or most cars. Or candy. I really don’t like candy. Here’s a big one: I don’t understand why people drink as much as they do. I have never liked the taste of alcohol, and never felt at all interested in getting tipsy or drunk. In college, everyone else was very interested in both of those things. That’s the College Experience. Everyone expected me to get drunk. When I came back on breaks, adults who knew me would make little “so—getting drunk a lot?” jokes constantly. I laughed along and had no idea why I was supposed to be throwing up all over myself in the basement of a frat house. So yeah. I don’t get it. I don’t get so many of the things the majority likes. Why should beauty be any different?
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Thursday, April 29, 2010
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
"If she's a
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What, exactly does
it take for Nike to dump a jock? Dog-fighting will do it. After Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick pleaded guilty to running a felony dog-fighting ring, Nike took action. “We consider any cruelty to animals inhumane and unacceptable,” the company said at the time.
But cruelty to women is O.K.here
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Oh course, I
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Tuesday, April 27, 2010
When I was
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Happiness
If you want happiness for a day – go fishing.
If you want happiness for a month – get married.
If you want happiness for a year – inherit a fortune.
If you want happiness for a lifetime – help someone else.
Monday, April 26, 2010
There is, perhaps,
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Sunday, April 25, 2010
Friday, April 23, 2010
The lesson, ladies,
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go back to
1994, your junior year of high school. someone will gift you a ticket to see her in concert. you will have heard of tori and listened to her music before, but seeing her live will entrance you. you will be surprised to find yourself crying. you will listen to the albums - little earthquakes and under the pink - often enough that sometimes in the car, your dad will sing along. you will know that ‘girl’ was written for you. and ‘winter.’ oh, and ‘precious things.’
you start talking to other fans on the internet. the first video you watch on the internet - at the fancy computer lab where it’s possible to view video on the web - will be tori performing on david letterman. you will discover an entire community on usenet and this will prove the start of an enduring internet addiction. you will start collecting bootleg recordings and imports and you buy the soundtracks to higher learning and great expectations just to get her tracks. most of all, you will start going to shows, where tori is at her best, pouring so much intensity and emotion into her music that it pours into the audience in thick waves. you become a connoisseur of the different growls she uses for the “tucked inside the heart of every nice girrrrrl” line in ‘precious things.’ you will go early to see her come in for soundcheck. you will learn to recognize her bodyguards.
boys for pele will come out when you most need something in which to find faith, and you will pore over the words and the sounds, hoping they hold the secret to escaping your depression. they don’t, but they help, and by the time from the choirgirl hotel comes out, you and tori are both ready to dance. you are still going to shows, and you are still seeing the same people and talking to them on the internet, and realizing that internet people can be friends.
by the time to venus and back comes out, you’ll just have moved to california. you’ll find a local independent record store and buy it on the release date. but you don’t listen to it as much, and you find yourself spending a lot more time with the fragile, the nin album that came out on the same date. and you still go to shows, you still talk to your friends, but you find yourself drifting away from tori. you buy the next two albums on their release dates but don’t listen to them much. you stop going to shows, having seen her roughly 45 times by now.
but you will still be friends with these people, the same ones you’ve known since 1994. who have gotten married and had kids and gone to school and suffered horrible losses and even died (love you DWC). and most of us hardly listen to tori anymore, but your friendships will endure. she will always be important to you. you will always be able to identify the song within 10 seconds, the lyrics to ‘the waitress’ will often spring to your mind during arguments, you will describe yourself as ‘the sweetest cherry in the apple pie’, and you will never ever be able to listen to ‘me and a gun’ without breaking.
Feminism needs to
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Thursday, April 22, 2010
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
There are ten
Gurus, or teachers, who shaped Sikhism into the religion that is practised today. They all thought women should be equal to men. Guru Nanak, the founder of Sikhism and the first of the ten Gurus said:
“In a woman man is conceived, from a woman he is born … why denounce her, the one from whom even kings are born. From a woman, women are born. None may exist without woman”
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Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Playing hooky
Monday, April 19, 2010
Gaga’s world is
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As far as
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But, all that
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While I understand the value in drawing both musical and political inspiration by looking backwards, I sometimes worry that by fixating so wholly and fervently on riot grrrl that we erase the women who were doing musical and political work before riot grrrl and who continue to do so in its wake. I feel like we do this even when it comes to original riot grrrls themselves. I mean, members of bands like Bikini Kill, Sleater Kinney, and Bratmobile have not stopped existing -- in fact, many of them are continuing to work on their own creative projects. Yet many people continue to fixate on what they were doing 15 years ago as opposed to what they are doing in the here and now. I also worry about the tacit assumption that all lady punks have a vested interest in the riot grrrl movement -- there are plenty of people out there who explicitly do not want to identify as riot grrrls and when we push their critiques to the margins in the hopes of "keeping it posi," we effectively engage in the same silencing of marginalized populations that some of the original riot grrrls engaged in.
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Sunday, April 18, 2010
It may be
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I’ve been thinking
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Saturday, April 17, 2010
Friday, April 16, 2010
Masculinity, however, can
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Thursday, April 15, 2010
It is crucial
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This sort of
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So what does
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Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Handbasket Productions
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You know what?
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Tuesday, April 13, 2010
Monday, April 12, 2010
Is there any
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Women of my
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The cool thing
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I don’t think
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Ironically, she was
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Sunday, April 11, 2010
Brady is just
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Thursday, April 8, 2010
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
We can’t know
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What not to wear
even if you are a beautiful twenty-something dj/designer
who can rock it well
so what would they say of me
in my blush frothy tulle ballerina mini skirt
or my frayed hem jeans?
i have worn hats with veils, eccentric platforms
men’s engineer boots and prom dresses
ripped t-shirts and torn stockings
a piece of orange satin wrapped into a dress
distressed knit “depression wear”
and silk kimono patchwork big enough for clowns
i’ve had bleached hair with black roots
pale powder face without blush
too-big silver hoops
mostly i’ve worn my heart
bleeding all over both my sleeves
it’s not a pretty sight, my dears
and now my fear
like ridiculous armor to keep you out
hey tv bitches, bring it
at least i still
got up this morning
and wrote this thing
WHAT HAVE YOU WORN THAT YOU “SHOULDN’T” HAVE
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