Sunday, July 4, 2010

Unlike spontaneous desire,

responsive desire only comes online after you’re already aroused. But responsive desire is no less a healthy, normal expression of sexual desire – it just isn’t the one men typically experience, and our stupid culture tries to tell women they’re broken if they’re not like men.

Adore your responsive desire. It asks that your partner provide some good reason for you to be turned on, and what could be fairer? Sex with you is a big deal – 15 minutes of kissin’ and huggin’ and sweet-talkin’ is quite a small toll to pay for the magisterial glory of your unrestrained lust.

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