that when women do perform this charade of male fantasy, in hopes of being a successful sex object, the response can be intensely negative. According to Rothbart, dudes kind of freak when their girlfriends start acting like porn stars: "They don't want their real women and their fantasy women to inhabit the same body." The cynical take is that this is a sign that even the porn generation isn't ready to leave behind the whole wife-whore dichotomy. More charitably, though, I think it might just be that fantasies are sexy because they aren't real.
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